"Now my life has changed because I feel like I have the tools to overcome my negative thoughts"
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"Now my life has changed because I feel like I have the tools to overcome my negative thoughts"

Before this programme, I was frustrated about my past and struggled to forgive myself. I had a lack of self-compassion and that held me back from achieving my goals. I would sometimes look in the mirror and say I hate myself and I wished I was a better human being. I really believed that I did not belong on this earth and I was undeserving of life when other people in the world are currently fighting to survive. Thanks to this program, I began to learn self-compassion, especially doing the eye-gazing task. I was apprehensive at first, but I knew I needed to do it. I did not enjoy the idea of regular meditation, and I would often feel like it was pointless. 

However, I felt that I could trust Vishen and I allowed myself to listen and engage in the tasks to the best of my ability. 

Not only am I more able to express gratitude to my surroundings, but I have now begun to constantly remind myself to express gratitude to myself and my achievements, as I often neglect to appreciate my accomplishments. 
And now my life has changed because I feel like I have the tools to overcome my negative thoughts. I have accepted that this negativity may be a part of me, but it doesn't define my existence and being. Despite having a vision of who I want to become in the future, I have become more accepting of who I am today, and I understand that happiness can start now. I now understand my purpose on this earth and it has become my new quest to follow the universe's guidance. Thank you Vishen for this priceless gift.

Emily Yip

Student

Rotherham, United Kingdom

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