It was 19 years ago but I still remember it. We moved into the new house was a nice one but suddenly I was in a new place alone, I Knew no-one and had no friends anymore. I remember playing alone in the garden. Once I started crying and screaming that I wanted to go back.
The school start wasn't better I spent the first 3 months alone eating a sandwich during the lesson break, waiting the moment that I could get home. My dad wasn't happy as well, he decided with my mom to move again. So in my 14, I had to start again from the beginning. New town, even bigger, alone and again start in a new school 35 km away from my home. After a couple of months, I was able again to make some friends and I started to build a life over there.
The new challenge was waiting around the corner, my parents divorced 2 years later. From that day started a bigger challenge for me, I was angry, nervous, I felt daily the pressure of my family the unhappiness that surrounded our home. That day I lost trust for one of the most important people in my life, my dad. That happened 13 years ago, but I still cannot behave with him in the same way that I used to. By the age of 18 I got my graduation and I decided to leave Italy and go in the UK to learn English. I left Italy with luggage and a goal to learn a language. I had nothing else apart from 1200 € that I spared from my Sommer job in order to survive the first months while I was looking for a job and a place to stay.
The time in London wasn't easy but I had the motivation and 2 good friends by my side, we share bad and good times together, we suffered and we celebrate. After 2 years I reached my purpose to learn the language and so was the time for me to start a new adventure.
I left England and moved in Austria to learn German. I didn't know yet but in Austria, I would meet my Melanie, my girlfriend for 8 years. She joined me toward my Austrian journey and she helped me to learn the language and integrate myself (she still doing it :) ). Now I live in Austria with her but in the main time we made some more experiences in Switzerland and Italy again. I wanted to see and learn more. By the age of 27, I became an Assistant Restaurant manager and I could speak 4 languages fluently. I was happy but I was missing something. I wanted more and I want more, I didn't want to stay by the average, the average doesn't fit me. In March 2020 I lost my job for the Corona virus. I was sitting on my couch wondering what I wanted to do in my life. I even wrote a book about Italian wine grapes. One day I had a call with a friend of mine she was telling me that she was working like crazy and I asked her was she was doing. She said closing and she gave the name of the person who was doing the program. Within 24 hours I joined the HTC program from Dan Lok. That was just the beginning.
That program opened my mind in ways that I didn't think before so I became hungry to learn. 2 weeks later I joined the speed reading and recalled masterclass from Jim Kwik and now I read a lot as well, something that I didn't use to do before. I integrate new habits in my life, a new lifestyle and my way of thinking completely changed.
In October I joined another program on Social media Manager that I'm still absolving and now I joined the Mindvalley quest, even if I lost my job again and I'm still looking for a new one to survive I still invest money in myself, cause now I believe that I am my BEST ASSET.