For one thing, I realized that, in some categories, I have been doing better than I've given myself credit for. A life changing A-ha, was in financial. I wish someone had had that talk with me when I was younger. I'm now talking to my daughters about is, so they manage that category better than I have until now. The biggest was so simple - that I am actually in charge of my own life. I always thought that life just happens to people. I never before saw that I can "happen" to life. That's a true game changer.
I really wish I had had this years ago. It would have changed everything.