The last 35 days, feels like 70 lol
Thanks for mindvalley for making this quest available. Thank you Dr Shefali for doing the work in the 1st place and coming up with an amazing quest for us all to follow. Hard and gut wrenching at times but there is so much support from the tribe, Sira Arakelyan and the tribe ambassadors you really take those breaths and keep on going. Forever grateful!!
Biggest aha moments for me was connecting my yelling behaviour to my inner child's fears. Learning to pause, not getting so involved with the girls arguments. Making the connection that I had hidden expectations around the girls being happy and successful. Like I'm a God ?. What an ego.
Feeling such a weight lifting off my shoulders that I can now forgive myself and relax. Allowing me to just observe the girls more to get to know them better letting go of expectations (this is going to take maybe a lifetime), little steps.
I truly began this quest feeling very lost. But now feeling a greater degree of lightness around my heart. I can not only love myself on a new level but also the girls who are in my care. I am not just looking after them now but connecting on a deeper level. Asking them more about what they want and seeing them relaxing and playing, expressing more of who they are.
I know I have only just begun but to experience this small shift has made our lives together improve 300%.
I have even see a big difference with my connection and interactions with my adult children. Not having to fix things in their lives has also been liberating.
After doing the post rating there are still a few areas I need to focus on moving forward while practicing what I have learnt so far. Thank you everyone evolved for encouraging me to being a more conscious parent moving forward.
Cannot say enough about how good this quest is for anyone who has children or is thinking about having children or anyone who would like to do work on healing their inner child.
Feeling very humble, but grateful and excited to seeing further change for the better for this family and society as a whole ???