I’m writing to you now as a 40-year-old female who is now rebuilding her life. Let me start at the beginning and shed some light as to what lead me to Mindvalley in 2020. After a loving and supportive upbringing, I was involved in a life-altering car accident which, I allowed to define my life for almost 20 years. I was told that I wouldn’t be able to further my education due to my brain injury and should expect headaches as a new normal. Not questioning this advice from the professionals, I acquiesced. During the next 20 years, I worked hard to get back into school and eventually graduated as the Valedictorian of my Business Administration class, but I still felt “deficient”. My dad and I built a financial services firm that is now listed on the NYSE, helped an amazing amount of middle-income Canadians with their finances, and have made a very comfortable life, but still, I felt like it wasn’t really me winning, I still wasn’t good enough.
I realize now that I put myself in romantic relationships where I would have to “fix” the other individual or care for them in some way so I could feel worthy. I married a man who whether intentionally or not, used me as his lifeline in every way possible until I made a decision to leave. Now 4 months later and a month into Mindvalley Be Extraordinary journey, I’m starting to realize that the validation I was looking for everywhere (school, men and family) was unnecessary because I am exactly where I need to be in my development for what the future holds for me. This program has cut through the noise of my life. I am now more focused and have chosen to streamline my life. I have stopped dating as it was something I was doing for validation and no longer feel the need for it. I’ve already seen improvements in my business in that I’m now striving to take actions that I would not have been confident enough to take before, but I do trust that I have intuition now, so everything will lead to my ultimate destination. I’m confident that this program will be the program that I look back on as the best investment in my life thus far. Thank you for sharing your passion, Jennifer Curpen
I realize now that I put myself in romantic relationships where I would have to “fix” the other individual or care for them in some way so I could feel worthy. I married a man who whether intentionally or not, used me as his lifeline in every way possible until I made a decision to leave. Now 4 months later and a month into Mindvalley Be Extraordinary journey, I’m starting to realize that the validation I was looking for everywhere (school, men and family) was unnecessary because I am exactly where I need to be in my development for what the future holds for me. This program has cut through the noise of my life. I am now more focused and have chosen to streamline my life. I have stopped dating as it was something I was doing for validation and no longer feel the need for it. I’ve already seen improvements in my business in that I’m now striving to take actions that I would not have been confident enough to take before, but I do trust that I have intuition now, so everything will lead to my ultimate destination. I’m confident that this program will be the program that I look back on as the best investment in my life thus far. Thank you for sharing your passion, Jennifer Curpen