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"I am so grateful for Mindvalley and the team for making these super Quests available"

In July 2019 my wife left me after 20 years of marriage due to me and my constant complaining about everything in life, I was miserable inside. I had this constant knot in my chest that couldn't be explained. First few months I resented the fact of her doing this, how dare she leave me. In October I crashed, giving up in life when I realized she wasn't coming back. I decided to do a search online to understand why she left me and needed to do an inner transformation. 

I stumbled on Mindvalley and reviewed several Quest. I decided to join the Rapid Transformation from Marisa Peer and followed the 30 days of transformation. Wow after the first week I was able to realize that I was the problem, I wasn't happy, that knot in my chest was actually anger from trauma from my childhood. Once I realized this I was finally on my way to a new me. Halfway through my quest and using Marisa Peer's methods, teaching I was able to get rid of this knot in my chest and the anger was gone. I was overwhelmed with emotions after this happened. I started getting anxieties, regrets, guilt for all the pain that I cause to everyone around me, to all the people I supposedly loved. I felt ashamed of my past. I couldn't stop crying, every day was a challenge but I continued the Quest. Amazing applying these methods daily and continuing the quest I was healing and starting feeling better. I started loving myself and the magic was showing up everywhere. People around me started noticing a change in me. Family and friends started talking about me and word travelled fast that I was positive, that I was kinder more understanding and open-minded. 30 days after completing the course and continued to follow my journey in bettering myself a miracle happened, my wife came to see me to talk. We were in November now approaching December and she informed me that she was hearing a lot of goods things about me and who I've become ( a better person). She reiterated why she originally left me saying I always loved you and still do but I'm no longer in love with you. She asked if it was okay for her to come around more often and spend time with me and my son. You see my son decided to stay with me when she left me. I was excited that she wanted to come and visit more often, I loved my wife so much and now with my transformation, I loved her even more but I understood and was okay of the choices she made in leaving me. 20 years of chaos, poor woman, poor son. I had a lot of work to do in order to be able to repair the damage I cause in both of them I thought. After spending more time with us Connie my wife was very happy in my transformation and was noticing that this was possibly a permanent change in me. Realizing this on December 7, 2019, she asked if we were okay in giving our relationship another try. 

Today is April 10, 2020, and our relationship is better than ever. I'm genuinely interested in her communication with me, I'm listening but best of all I'm hearing her. You see I was always listening to her speak but I would not hear her because I would always be thinking of what I was going to say or defend myself on what she was about to say. We are all in confinement because of Covit 19 and so we are all three confined together in the same house. Not one single argument, fight, we do disagree on certain things time to time but now do to my transformation I no longer get angry and blow a gasket, I listen, we communicate and work on our disagreement and come together in a mutual agreement. Wow I love my family. My life has transformed so much and now with Covit 19 we are discussing goal together on what we plan on doing together to better ourselves. I purchased the full Mindvalley package and we started the extraordinary mind quest together and learning to improve our lives by understanding the brules. We are excited in completing this quest and looking forward to our transformation. 

Thank you so much Marisa Peer and Vishen Lakhiani for being there for me and putting these resources out there that changed my life forever. I am so grateful for Mindquest and the team for making these super Quest available to better ourselves. 

Thank you, thank you, thank you so much Sincerely Grateful, Herve DaSilva

Herve Dasilva

Owner, Royal Crest Cabinets Inc. and S.O.S. Renovations

Tecumseh, Canada

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