"You can see the stainless steel is quite thick"

Had tried this with freinds at a party almost 20 years earlier...to no avail😔. Realized during the call how much my expectations and analytical mind had been getting in the way of processes. You can see the stainless steel is quite thick. What I did differently this time 1) surrendered and released whatever limiting beliefs came up 2) sent love to everyone on the call 3) asked the spoon which way it wants to bend