I have a husband passionately in love with me. My relationship with him has been deteriorating at a tremendously fast rate for the last 6 years. We’ve been running businesses together for the past 20 years but have totally different approaches when it comes to people (especially our employees). He respects nobody. Only his opinion counts and it actually gives him pleasure to have a good fight arguing over things even if they’re stupid and silly because his interest lies only on one thing- on winning ALL THE TIME. He ignores anyone’s opinion. Even mine and even knowing that doing so has a very high cost for him because it shifts me away further and further.
I got to a point where I couldn’t put up with him no more. I hated the fact of just having to be close to him physically.
But...I was very aware of the fact that he would never consent me giving up on our relationship.
So I chose to live with a person that I don’t care about and that I just simply ignore every time but he’s just not aware of it. In other words, I fake my true emotional state every single time I’m close to him. He speaks and I pretend to be interested but my brain is not even listening and I’m urging for the moment he can shut up, so I can get back to work, to the kids, or to any of my interests.
I began to live an untrue life and so against my true self and my personality.
So .... the last 2 years, I’ve been spending a lot of energy on how I may possibly free myself from this relationship but I never find an answer.
All I was sure about, was that I couldn’t live with this person for much longer because he was totally destroying my character and making me live against my values.
In Lifebook, doing the Love Relationship Category was the very utmost difficult Category of all for me. I was stuck about everywhere in that category. The words would not come out. I was stuck on my beliefs, my vision seemed incongruent, my purpose didn’t match my vision and obviously, trying to fit in a strategy when these three pillars are so shuffled in your mind, is totally impossible.
But ..... thanks to Lifebook and its guidelines, I finally got through the storm and made it through my PVPS.
I couldn’t believe the nice things I had said about him and had visioned for us together.
I repeated them a few times. It felt strange because it didn’t truly match my feelings and thoughts but...
Now.... and After Lifebook, I must confess, that I’m so grateful for having gone through this tough reflection because I’m now highly committed to making this relationship work out, as wonderful as it can be.
It is 100% worth trying to make it work than destroying everything we’ve built and co-created over all these years. We have a beautiful family and it would hurt so much to see it fall apart.
After Lifebook, I see my spouse totally surrendered to personal development and I see him as a highly respectful human being. In my vision, he is one of the most interesting men I’ve ever spoken to and I’m so lucky not just to have him as my best friend but also, to have him as my husband and wonderful lover, too. :)
In my vision, I’ve simply fallen in love with him again, and not only do I enjoy working with him but also, enjoy every single minute of being close to him.
We have become each other's support and confidants.
We are best friends and great lovers.
I love Lifebook. I’m totally excited about doing mastery and totally enthusiastic with the membership community because I’ve found the best life tool humanity can have and I want to hold on to it for the rest of my life.
Lifebook is a treasure that I share with my 19 and 14-year-old kids and I will pass this treasure onto allllllll my descendants.
As a matter of fact .......
Lifebook is something that should and can be part of school programs in the near future and I believe that that’s about to happen even before Lifebook’s gotten to the 1 million people goal.
Jon and Missy are going to have schools all over the world teaching the Lifebook program.
Wow... what a magnificent way to make money but so usefully serve the world for generations to come. :)
You guys are amazing and I’m so so fortunate to have accidentally tripped over the offer of Lifebook for 2020.
Love you guys with all my heart and grateful for the rest of my life.
Love you too Alex and thank you for all the effort you put into this mission.
I got to a point where I couldn’t put up with him no more. I hated the fact of just having to be close to him physically.
But...I was very aware of the fact that he would never consent me giving up on our relationship.
So I chose to live with a person that I don’t care about and that I just simply ignore every time but he’s just not aware of it. In other words, I fake my true emotional state every single time I’m close to him. He speaks and I pretend to be interested but my brain is not even listening and I’m urging for the moment he can shut up, so I can get back to work, to the kids, or to any of my interests.
I began to live an untrue life and so against my true self and my personality.
So .... the last 2 years, I’ve been spending a lot of energy on how I may possibly free myself from this relationship but I never find an answer.
All I was sure about, was that I couldn’t live with this person for much longer because he was totally destroying my character and making me live against my values.
In Lifebook, doing the Love Relationship Category was the very utmost difficult Category of all for me. I was stuck about everywhere in that category. The words would not come out. I was stuck on my beliefs, my vision seemed incongruent, my purpose didn’t match my vision and obviously, trying to fit in a strategy when these three pillars are so shuffled in your mind, is totally impossible.
But ..... thanks to Lifebook and its guidelines, I finally got through the storm and made it through my PVPS.
I couldn’t believe the nice things I had said about him and had visioned for us together.
I repeated them a few times. It felt strange because it didn’t truly match my feelings and thoughts but...
Now.... and After Lifebook, I must confess, that I’m so grateful for having gone through this tough reflection because I’m now highly committed to making this relationship work out, as wonderful as it can be.
It is 100% worth trying to make it work than destroying everything we’ve built and co-created over all these years. We have a beautiful family and it would hurt so much to see it fall apart.
After Lifebook, I see my spouse totally surrendered to personal development and I see him as a highly respectful human being. In my vision, he is one of the most interesting men I’ve ever spoken to and I’m so lucky not just to have him as my best friend but also, to have him as my husband and wonderful lover, too. :)
In my vision, I’ve simply fallen in love with him again, and not only do I enjoy working with him but also, enjoy every single minute of being close to him.
We have become each other's support and confidants.
We are best friends and great lovers.
I love Lifebook. I’m totally excited about doing mastery and totally enthusiastic with the membership community because I’ve found the best life tool humanity can have and I want to hold on to it for the rest of my life.
Lifebook is a treasure that I share with my 19 and 14-year-old kids and I will pass this treasure onto allllllll my descendants.
As a matter of fact .......
Lifebook is something that should and can be part of school programs in the near future and I believe that that’s about to happen even before Lifebook’s gotten to the 1 million people goal.
Jon and Missy are going to have schools all over the world teaching the Lifebook program.
Wow... what a magnificent way to make money but so usefully serve the world for generations to come. :)
You guys are amazing and I’m so so fortunate to have accidentally tripped over the offer of Lifebook for 2020.
Love you guys with all my heart and grateful for the rest of my life.
Love you too Alex and thank you for all the effort you put into this mission.