I was living my life full of bitterness for the man whom I first thought was my soulmate. Before this program, all I did was destroy his image to every person I met because of what he did to me two and a half years earlier. I played the victim as the poor wife who was cheated on. I took this quest with the intention of wanting to give myself the chance to find another man to love. But the quest did far more than what I expected...It freed me completely from the bitterness towards my ex husband. It opened my eyes to the painful fact that I was responsible for what happened - even if it were just 10%. The good life we had together and the love we had for each other that I erased from my mind out of spite for his wrongdoing...all these came back so vividly in my mind. The bitterness was replaced by deep understanding for this man...which brought me to give him total forgiveness. Now I see can myself having a deeper level of friendship with this same man again. It has given me back my peace.
Related Stories
Conscious Uncoupling
"I recommend this quest to anyone suffering from their thoughts and feelings about a fresh breakup, or an old one that still nags you"
After my 6 year relationship ended under excruciating circumstances, I was looking everywhere for some relief from my grief, and some way to move on in a healthy way. I signed up for the Conscious Uncoupling quest on Mindvalley after finding it too painful to read Katherine Woodward Thomas's book...
Read more
Conscious Uncoupling
"I look forward to receiving insights as to how I can adjust this part of my existence and become a better man, lover and partner"
I live in Hobart, Tasmania, Australia. I work as a professional musician and tutor for college aged students.
I long for a healthy relationship and I believe that over the years I have sabotaged any potential because my overthinking brain gets in the way, this perpetuates behaviours that...
Read more
Conscious Uncoupling
"I now entered a much more balanced, generous and respectful relationship"
This wonderful Quest has helped making clear to me, without useless judgments, that Love is unconditional but a relationship not only is not, but also it must not be, in order to maintain the integrity of all people involved. Before this I was able to love, deeply and unconditionally, but...
Read more