"I feel divinely free and happy now that the papers of our divorce are in process"
Conscious Uncoupling

"I feel divinely free and happy now that the papers of our divorce are in process"

Thanks to this program I begin to deal with upset points of my ex-husband's behavior in a lighter way, with almost no resentment, anger. I am on week 1, so I still feel revenge waves coming to me. Injustice is hard to bear, especially when you are the one who tried to do things right from the beginning, from the perception that the divorce was inevitable... But if I did not pay attention to the red flags from the first moments of our romance... If I skipped important issues before signing the marriage papers... I cannot blame anyone else. I am fastly learning to assume my responsibility - and the power I have in my life, as a consequence. MindValley is part of my story, now! I was married for 28 years, and pushed a failed relationship during 12 of these 28 years, considering my children's age and all the suffering they would face if I divorced when I first recognized this failure. These were hard times, where I even developed illnesses. But I do not regret it, because I aimed for a better outcome if I kept trying and forcing my soul to keep married to a man that was not that interested in me anymore but needed my money and workforce at home to make his life more comfortable. I feel divinely free and happy now that the papers of our divorce are in process! But I do need to deal better with my revenge waves.

Ana Paula Rodrigues Cavalcanti

Professor in UFPB - João Pessoa - PB

João Pessoa, Brazil

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