"I feel divinely free and happy now that the papers of our divorce are in process"
Conscious Uncoupling

"I feel divinely free and happy now that the papers of our divorce are in process"

Thanks to this program I begin to deal with upset points of my ex-husband's behavior in a lighter way, with almost no resentment, anger. I am on week 1, so I still feel revenge waves coming to me. Injustice is hard to bear, especially when you are the one who tried to do things right from the beginning, from the perception that the divorce was inevitable... But if I did not pay attention to the red flags from the first moments of our romance... If I skipped important issues before signing the marriage papers... I cannot blame anyone else. I am fastly learning to assume my responsibility - and the power I have in my life, as a consequence. MindValley is part of my story, now! I was married for 28 years, and pushed a failed relationship during 12 of these 28 years, considering my children's age and all the suffering they would face if I divorced when I first recognized this failure. These were hard times, where I even developed illnesses. But I do not regret it, because I aimed for a better outcome if I kept trying and forcing my soul to keep married to a man that was not that interested in me anymore but needed my money and workforce at home to make his life more comfortable. I feel divinely free and happy now that the papers of our divorce are in process! But I do need to deal better with my revenge waves.

Ana Paula Rodrigues Cavalcanti

Professor in UFPB - João Pessoa - PB

João Pessoa, Brazil

Related Stories

Conscious Uncoupling

"I am growing and transforming every day"

The reason I enrolled in this Quest is that I felt that I needed tools/guidance to navigate my life and my relationship. I was in therapy and doing meditation but I still needed answers and clarity that I just was not getting. I remember listening to an interview on u tube about Unconscio...
Read more

Indira Samlal

Accounts/Administration Manager

Port of Spain, Trinidad and Tobago

Conscious Uncoupling

"Conscious Uncoupling brought me to a place of self-responsibility"

I gave, forgave and was generous to a fault. Katherine’s work made me realize that my idea of a conscious breakup was actually self-abandonment and lots of emotional bypassing—just to keep the peace for my boys. I was trying to create peace and harmony from a void. From the outside, it l...
Read more

Angela Tapales

Philippines

Conscious Uncoupling

“I transformed from my deepest breakdown to my most magnificent breakthrough”

I was 4 months into the breakup process prior to beginning the Conscious Uncoupling program, and during that time, I suffered from deep depression. I couldn’t get out of bed for days at a time and lost 25 pounds because I could barely eat anything. My whole body ached from the emotional stress,...
Read more

Julia

United States

Mindvalley is fueled by your stories

Our community runs on voices like yours. It keep us going, and keeps us grounded.
Tell us like it is. What's your story?
Tell us your Story