I want to share with you the process I went through with this month's teaching:
Presence and awareness starts way before you sit in front of a client, it's being true to yourself. Through Monika's words I was able to finally tune into my purpose and understand why coaching hasn't worked for me in the past. My purpose is co-creation, it shows up everywhere in my life where I let go of other people's rules and find my heart based voice.
In coaching I was trying to follow the rules: make an avatar, qualify your clients, know what you can give them. For me it felt strict and not aligned with wanting to be present and co-create in the moment.
But it's all such important things...
Monika talked about feelings, listening to the butterflies. So I started sharing content on facebook based only on my internal feeling of what is right, and I invited women to come have conversations with me. I was really honest about my fears around going back to coaching and really present in the knowledge that something will happen only if it's aligned with my purpose.
I got so many replies that I started scheduling calls for 3 weeks from now. But I didn't qualify them, how could I know they're a good fit?
Well, something interesting happened. Some of them backed out or hesitated, and I was left only with the ones that really wanted to work with me and that I was excited to work with them.
Will they become paying clients?
I don't know and I don't really care. We will create something amazing together, and I'll get back on track with coaching and I'll learn better the signs of who not to work with.