I have never been so clear in my entire life as to what to do as a career or what my purpose is. When this journey began I was not sure how to talk to a client, what to talk about, or what kind of questions to ask. But when I followed the teachings, learning through pods and demo videos which are super helpful. I began coaching my friends or people I know.
Last week I approached a prospective client whom I had never met. She presented the problem of being scared to launch her art offerings. I paused and asked questions like- what is it that is making you scared? Has something like this happened before? To find a connection to any event that might be triggering her fear. She replied that there was an event that happened in her life years ago that is kind of holding her back. I asked her to do a session with me.
I began with a deep breathing exercise. We spent some time letting her know what I do as a Life coach and then some time getting to know more about her. She shared the event that triggers her and she wept for some time. Then I asked her while she was describing the event did she feel anything in her body? She felt a pinchy ball in her tummy. I guided her before going into meditation by asking that she can pick any magical wand to make this pinchy ball disappear-she chose the Harry Potter wand. In the meditation I first made her entire body relax and guided her into using the wand and making the ball disappear.
She said “I don’t know what you did and you are good at it” she felt the ball travelling from her tummy and getting stuck in her head and she had to remove it with her wand which made her wand sticky and finally the ball left her space. I felt complete gratitude after hearing this.
She said she feels neutral now. I suggested to meet again to find out her goals and the reason behind launching her products to dig more. We will meet again!