Since COVID isolation I have found ways to continue with relationships and my career and in following my major hobbies (involved with music and singing, with nature - hiking and bird and animal watching, and photography- I have many photos of others but few of myself) - and even though I do not live near my children and grandchildren we have found ways to continue with our connection, as well with my sister who lives far away).
I have friends who again I connect mostly through internet in one way or another. The major challenge has been my one son who had to come to live with us due to his challenges and this is hard on him (he is 40 and does not want to feel dependent on us). I am using these quests to have a healthy relationship with him, to remain at peace with myself during this challenging time with having him unwell and with COVID, and to improve myself and others.