"I look forward to receiving insights as to how I can adjust this part of my existence and become a better man, lover and partner"

I live in Hobart, Tasmania, Australia. I work as a professional musician and tutor for college-aged students. 
I long for a healthy relationship and I believe that over the years I have sabotaged any potential because my overthinking brain gets in the way, this perpetuates behaviours that do not serve me or a potential relationship. 
I look forward to receiving insights as to how I can adjust this part of my existence and become a better man, lover and partner to all future relationships that I will be a part of.